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Ellen DeGeneres/ This is Me

by Emily from San Diego

Ellen DeGeneres on the set of
Ellen DeGeneres on the set of "The Ellen Show". (www.shewired.com ())

"What I'm trying to say is, if you leave here tonight, and you don't remember anything else that I said, leave here and remember this, 'Procrastinate Now! Don't put it off.' Thank you" (Niecy). During one of her comedic shows, Ellen DeGeneres humored the idea of procrastination. Her story began when DeGeneres was born in Metairie, Louisiana in 1958 ("Ellen DeGeneres." Newsmakers.). She was on her way to getting her degree in communications at the University of New Orleans until she decided that she was not happy with where she was in life and consequently dropped out of school ("Ellen DeGeneres | Biography - American Comedian and Television Host."). She ended up performing in Louisiana, and was offered a position to be a stand-up comedian after one of her shows ("Degeneres, Ellen 1958-." American Decades.). Today, DeGeneres is known for her side-splitting humor that can be witnessed on her television sitcom that airs every day of the week. Other than being rewarded "Showtime's Funniest Person in America" she has also published many books that tell everyone about her experiences ("Ellen DeGeneres | Biography - American Comedian and Television Host."). It is not easy to live the life of a celebrity and still be able to follow one's own morals. She handles both her career and her social life perfectly with great finesse. Despite what she is feeling on the inside, DeGeneres always smiles at others. Even when she is attempting to hide her true feelings, she is at least showing the world her best self. As she influences many, Ellen DeGeneres, maintains a positive attitude toward everything that comes flying her way, displays heroic qualities such as having confidence in herself, and also demonstrates the determination to follow her own decisions.

 DeGeneres in one of her early performances. ( imgkid.com ())
DeGeneres in one of her early performances. ( imgkid.com ())

Ellen DeGeneres has had to deal with many issues within her lifetime, but was still able to continue on with a positive personality for the sake of herself and those around her. In 1970, DeGeneres's family fell apart and she was left with her mother and siblings to cope with the aftermath: "After her parents divorce, DeGeneres, 13, uses her comedic talents to help her mother Betty recover. 'I was helping [my mother] cope with a broken heart. It brought us closer together and made me realize the power of humor'" ("Ellen DeGeneres." from PEOPLE.com.). During this time period, DeGeneres and her mother were not in the highest of spirits, their emotions were disheveled. DeGeneres could not stand seeing her mother in such a state, so she turned towards comedy to help her mother get through the tough times. Even though she did not feel well herself, DeGeneres masked her sorrow with happiness and continued to show others her positive personality. By remaining positive, she was the glue that held her family together emotionally. As she began to travel across the country for a few shows in some small clubs and bars, DeGeneres realized how hard it was to be away from everything that she was familiar with: "'You have to be really, really tough-skinned,' she tells W. 'There's lots of traveling, lots of being by yourself, lots of really rude drunk people. You're not just in big cities; you're in... lots of places where, literally, the soup of the day got top billing. There would be a chalkboard on the sidewalk and it would say: SOUP OF THE DAY: BROCCOLI. AND ELLEN DEGENERES'" ("Ellen DeGeneres." from PEOPLE.com.). Ellen DeGeneres demonstrates she knows how to make serious situations light hearted with her humor. Ellen DeGeneres approaches the serious topic with an informal, comical tone. By adding some humor, DeGeneres expresses her love of happiness and positivity towards the world making her the light in a dark room. Her humorous personality and whimsical qualities allow her to overcome any conflict that comes her way.

 DeGeneres and her wife de Rossi at their wedding. (www.people.com ())
DeGeneres and her wife de Rossi at their wedding. (www.people.com ())

DeGeneres has faced many harsh judgments throughout her career as an entertainer, but despite the criticism, her self-confidence never wavers. In June of 2005, DeGeneres reveals her dark childhood in a fashion magazine interview: "She publicly reveals her stepfather's sexual abuse for the first time: 'It's important for teenage girls out there to hear that there are different ways to say no. And if it ever happens to them, they should tell someone right away'" ("Ellen DeGeneres." from PEOPLE.com.). Ellen DeGeneres was still compelled to move on and continue with a normal life. She decided that this traumatizing experience was not going to leave any emotional scars. Instead of digging for sympathy, she got past the fear of losing face and tried to teach the world a lesson through her own experiences. Because of her confidence, there are people who listen to her. DeGeneres's viewers watch her shows because they receive inspiration from the way she believes in herself. By being the first openly gay lead sitcom character, she paved the path for many to follow in her footsteps: "She made TV history in April 1997 when her character, and DeGeneres herself personally, revealed that she was a lesbian. However, the show was canceled the following season due to declining ratings, after which DeGeneres returned to the stand-up circuit" (Hapwood). DeGeneres is not afraid to show the world who she really is. After her show's ratings dropped, she was resilient and returned to her love for comedy. Her confidence is showcased not only through the act of announcing her sexuality, but the fact that DeGeneres was not afraid of getting back onto her feet. Also, DeGeneres never fails to be who she wants to be. There is nothing that gets in her way makes her change who she is. While society looked down upon DeGeneres's decisions, she continued following her own ideals.

Ellen DeGeneres dancing with the first lady. (artsbeat.blogs.nytimes.com ())
Ellen DeGeneres dancing with the first lady. (artsbeat.blogs.nytimes.com ())

Ellen DeGeneres has had to endure many hardships that came with the entertainment business, coupled with the tragedies of life. Towards the end of her educational career, DeGeneres decided that she was not content with where she was in life: "Dissatisfied with university life, she left to work in a law firm and later held a string of jobs, including waitress, bartender, house painter, and oyster shucker" ("Degeneres, Ellen." from Britannica Biographies). These actions show how DeGeneres knows who she wants to be and what she wants to do. Instead of "going with the flow", DeGeneres paved her own path to her current place in society. It isn't easy to change one's lifestyle; making those changes takes a lot of courage. Later at the prime age of twenty-one, DeGeneres experienced one of the most devastating moments of her life. Her love, Kathy Perkoff, got into a fatal accident and Ellen DeGeneres was faced with sorrow: "DeGeneres, 21, develops a relationship with Kathy Perkoff, 23, a poet. 'They were two very creative people, crazy and young and very much in love,' Perkoff's sister Rachel remembers. The pair's happiness is abruptly cut short when Perkoff dies in a car accident. Afterwards, DeGeneres writes her first monologue, 'A Phone Call to God,' about mortality, and performs it at her first stand-up job, emceeing at a New Orleans comedy club" ("Ellen DeGeneres." from PEOPLE.com.). After one's significant other dies, it is often not an easy task to move on. Ellen DeGeneres was determined to get back to her life. Instead of mourning over Perkoff's death, she paid tribute to Perkoff by writing a monologue in her honor. DeGeneres returned to the show-biz with a bang. The fall of her previous show led her to the start of her career's prime. The new show revealed to the entire world its success by winning an assemblage of awards: "Redemption as a television artiste came in 2003, when DeGeneres's daytime talk show, Ellen: The Ellen DeGeneres Show (2003) proved to be both a critical hit and a commercial success. Along with good ratings, the show has won unprecedented kudos from the industry, winning 15 Emmy Awards in its first three seasons on the air and becoming the first talk show in TV history to win the Emmy Award for Outstanding Talk Show in its first three seasons" (Hapwood). After her previous show was cancelled, DeGeneres shows her strength by starting anew and proving to the world how amazing she really is. As for being determined, DeGeneres shows countless examples of when she was pushed down by society and then gets up again just to start anew. Rather than letting the disappointment get to her, DeGeneres continued with her own path. She used her perseverance to get through these hard times and eventually reached where she wanted to be. No one can deny DeGeneres's dedication towards her passion.

As a hero for much of her audience, Ellen DeGeneres possesses a positive attitude, self-confidence, and determination, all of which inspires others to look up to her. Because DeGeneres experienced an eventful life, she was able to gain wisdom and strength from overcoming the bad experiences that came her way.  But what sets Ellen DeGeneres apart from others is her spirit. She never fails to lighten up the mood with her playfulness. Also, her self-confidence levels are through the roof. DeGeneres does not take offence to what others say about her, nor does she respond to harsh comments with the same unpleasantness. She could care less about what others say because she is above the childish behavior others may exhibit towards her. Another attribute that contributes to DeGeneres's heroic personality is her self-motivation. No one can stay out of life's dilemmas for long and once one has fallen into trouble, it takes skill to get out. She had to overcome many hardships to get to where she is today. Whenever the name Ellen DeGeneres comes up, the first thing that comes to mind is her sense of humor, captured in the way she makes fun of everyday objects and is known across the globe for it. When asked about their favorite women comedians, many people put her at the top of the list, along with Mary Tyler Moore and Lucille Ball. Her successful career allows many to look up to her. Ellen DeGeneres is an inspiration to many and a role model for all.

Works Cited

"Degeneres, Ellen 1958-." American Decades. Ed. Judith S. Baughman, et al. Vol. 10: 1990-1999. Detroit: Gale, 2001. Gale Virtual Reference Library. Web. 8 May 2015.

"Degeneres, Ellen." Britannica Biographies (2012): 1. Biography Reference Center. Web. 3 May 2015.

"Ellen DeGeneres | Biography - American Comedian and Television Host." Encyclopedia Britannica Online. Encyclopedia Britannica, n.d. Web. 4 May 2015.

"Ellen DeGeneres." Newsmakers. Detroit: Gale, 1995. Biography in Context. Web. 4 May 2015.

"Ellen DeGeneres." PEOPLE.com. Ed. Julia Wang. TIME INC. NETWORK, 2015. Web. 04 May 2015.

Hapwood, Jon C. "Ellen DeGeneres." IMDb. Amazon.com, 2015. Web. 03 May 2015.

Niecy. "Discussion Topic." Dont Give Up Discussion: Top 20 Funny Ellen DeGeneres Jokes, Quotes and Sayings. N.p., 2 Aug. 2009. Web. 20 May 2015.

 

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